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Final Exam SG (FAD2230)

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FAD2230 1/8/15 Ch. 1—Why study families and other close relationships?  Why study families? o Families are a central institution  Social institution—sphere of public life with a set of beliefs and rules organized meet human needs  Bronfenbrenner’s Ecological theory  US Census bureau o Family- 2+ people living together related by  Birth  Marriage  Adoption o Does not include unmarried homosexuals/heterosexuals  Social science definition o Family- relationship by blood, marriage, or affection o Members may  Cooperate economically  Care for children  Consider identity to be connected  Definition of stepfamilies has been adapted  Types of families o Family of orientation/origin—family you are born into o Family of procreation—family created when you marry (does not necessarily need children) o Fictive kin—nonrelatives, bonds of affection (person not biologically related to you that you consider family)  Why define family? o Legal reasons o Policy implications  Taxes, health insurance/benefits o Social implications (DTR-define the relationship) o Shared meaning  Purpose of family? o Economic cooperation  Help provide food, shelter, etc. o Care, warmth, protection, intimacy o Reproduce and socialize children  Socialization- teach healthy relationships, proper interactions, acceptable behavior  Teaching children the rules/expectations of society  Modeling the rules/expectations of society o Regulate sexual behavior  Intercourse within family is socially unacceptable o Social placement, status, and roles o Property and inheritance  Determining heirs  Themes of this class o Theme 1- linking micro/macro level perspectives on families o Theme 2- families are always changing o Theme 3- the importance of social science theory and research  Our relationships are inextricably related to the social structure found in our society o Social structure- stable framework of social relationships that guides our reactions with others  Theme 1- linking micro/macro level perspectives on families o Micro level factors  Focused on individual and his/hers interactions  We have human agency—we are not passive participants in society o Macro level factors  Focused on how marriage, families, and close relationships are interconnected with society and social structure o Micro components  Personal choices, behaviors, feelings, communication, decisions, constraints, values, interactions o Macro components  Culture, history, power and inequality, social institutions, social status, social movements o Micro/macro factors that impact dating  Macro  Stereotypical forces- homosexual relationships  Religion- certain things are acceptable in relationships  Micro  Opposite values of partner  Previous relationships  Communication- stonewalling, passive aggressive o Micro/macro factors that impact divorce  Macro  Economic/money issues  Culture- older generations vs. current  Micro  Different parenting styles- co-parenting  Time/money management 1/11/16  Theme 2- families are always changing o Marriage- institutional arrangement b/n persons to publically recognize social and intimate bonds  Why important?  Benefits, privileges, shared meaning(ceremony, typical wear, etc.), commitment o William Stephens (1963) definition of marriage  Socially legit sexual union  Begun with a public announcement  Undertaken with some idea of permanence  Assumed with a more or less explicit marriage contract that spells out reciprocal obligations of spouses  Ex- monogamy, procreation, good parenting, economic stability, respect, love o Family patterns across cultures (macro)  Marriage patterns  Monogamy-marriage b/n one woman and one man  Polygamy- system that allows for more than one spouse at a time (illegal in US- still practiced) o Polygyny- pattern in which husbands have more than one wife o Polyandry- system allows for women to have more than one spouse at a time  Ex- places where female children suffer from infanticide leading to a lower female population  Patterns of authority  Patriarchy- norms/expectation that men have natural right to be in positions of authority over women  Matriarchy- “ “ power and authority vested in women  Egalitarian- expectation that power and authority are equally vested in both men and women  Patterns of descent  Bilateral- descent traced through both male and female sides of the family  Patrilineal- descent traced through only mans family line  Matrilineal- descent exclusively traced through women’s families (more rare) o Ex- native American cultures  Patterns of residence  Neolocal- expectation that newly married couple establishes a residence and lives there independently  Patrilocal- expectation that newly married couple lives with husbands family  Matrilocal- expectation that newly married couple live with family of the wife o Colonial America  Nuclear family (immediate family- mom, dad, kids- 6+)  Families were primary social institution (work, school, health care, etc.)  Family composition (6+ children in each family, no divorce/remarriage)  Marriages and divorce  Arranged marriages  Remarried when widowed  Connecticut’s Divorce law: o “Adultery, fraudulent contract, or willful desertion for 3 years with total neglect of duty, or seven years provisional absence being not heard of after due enquiry made and certified”  Massachusetts b/n 1639-1692: 27 divorces granted o b/n 1692-1796: Governor of Mass. Heard all 115 divorce petitions  Children as property of their fathers  Seen as mini adults  Experience for indentured servants and slaves  Slave families were frequently broken up and sold off  Many slave owners fathered children with their slaves o Industrialization, Urbanization, and immigration  Large urban industry  Children and families  Social stratification  Poor and working class  Middle and upper class o 20 century families  WWI, WWII, Great Depression (macro)  Women in the workplace  Men overseas, women take over jobs in the homeland  Increased technology—automobiles allowed families to choose were they want to live not based on where they work  Companionate family—no more arranged marriages  American theme—criticism for men taking paternity leaver o Profile of US families  Marry later (25-27 yrs)  Smaller families (1/5 couple wont have children)  More working moms (2/3 work)  Elderly pop. Increased (1900-4% Now- fastest growing population)  More single parent households and binuclear— multiple families interacting 1/13/16  Theme 3- the importance of social science research o Different goals or research  Describe phenomenon (prevalence)  Examine factors associated with phenomenon (correlation)  Explain cause and effect (causation)  Examine meanings and experiences o Types of research  Quantitative Research  Responses= quantifiable/numeric; choose from a pre-determined group of possible answers o “Check the appropriate response..”  Qualitative research  Reponses= open-ended/not restricted to a pre- determined group of possible answers o “Tell me about your experience with..”  Methods of research  Survey- form of research that gather info about attitudes or behaviors through the answer that people give to questions o Limitations- response participation varies, bias o Typically quantitative, but can be qualitative  In depth interview- method that allows an interviewer to obtain responses to questions o Qualitative  Experiment- controlled method for determining cause and effect o Quantitative  Focus group- small group of people who are brought together to discuss a particular topic o Qualitative  Observational study- research method that goes into the natural setting and observes people in action o Role of researcher- active participant, discussion, teaching, passive observer o Qualitative  Secondary analysis- method in which the data was collected for some other purpose but still is useful to the researcher o Can be both qualitative and quantitative o How do we study families?  Research question  theory  hypothesis Research methodology  Theory- general framework, explanation, or tool used to understand and describe the real world (Smith and Hamon, 2012) table on page 22  Research question describes  What you want to know (IV and DV variables)  The population you want to study  Research example  Research question: Do FSU students who have experienced a parental divorce have less favorable views of marriage?  Goal: Describe phenomenon (prevalence  IV- whether their parents were divorced  DV- their views on marriage  Hypothesis: If the students parents were divorced, they would have a negative view of marriage o What do we know about the class of 2013?  Out of 100 members of a HS class, roughly  71 have experience physical assault  64 have had sexual intercourse  32 have experienced some form of child maltreatment  28 victimized sexually  23 smoked marijuana is the past 30 days  22 living in poverty  21 had an STI in the past year  3-4 females have been/are pregnant; 1 had abortion  1-2 in foster care FAD2230 1/15/16 Ch 2- Social status: Sex and gender, race and ethnicity, social class  Our choices, even personal ones, do not exist in a vacuum o Society impacts us  Social stratification o Hierarchal ranking of categories of people within society o All groups are NOT treated equally o More, less, or different opportunities  Can’t change race, gander, etc.  Sociological Imagination o Personal experiences are shaped by forces within our society o Society empowers and constrains us  Women expected to be stay at home mothers  Basics—What is the difference between the terms sex and gender? o Sex- biological differences o Gender- culturally and socially constructed differences o Androgyny- having both masculine and feminine traits  Related to gender  Are men and women really from different planets? (no) o Biological differences o Some cognitive differences  No difference in intelligence—processing skills can differ  Examined 46 meta-analyses related to o Cognitive abilities, Communication, Social an personality variable, Psychological well-being o Findings  Very few differences  78% of “gender differences” were small except in  motor performance  measures of sexuality o Why does everyone talk about the differences?  Gender socialization- taught the cultural norms associated with being male/female  Who teaches us?—agents of socialization  Parents, teachers, toys, peers, the media, schools  Agents of socialization o Parents- girls will receive more nurture/help than boys, communication varies with baby, nursery/bedroom decorations, activities child is enrolled in, rough house (boys) vs. play house(girls) o Schools- hidden curriculum (enforcing girls to learn compliance), description of men and women roles(egg and sperm) o Toys- dolls vs. trucks, video games (women not seen as protagonists, instead highly sexualized) o Peers- girls who play outside with the boys are tomboys, boys who aren’t super tough are seen as sissies o Mass Media- women seen as damsel in distress while men are the super strong, tough, manly, heroes who deserve whatever woman they set their mind on (Gaston in Beauty and the Beast)  How does gender influence family an close relationships? o Woman do 2/3 times domestic labor than men 1/20/16  Refresh my memory o Sex- biological o Gender- culturally and socially constructed differences  Race vs. Ethnicity o What’s the difference?  Race- real or perceived physical traits deemed important by society  Ethnicity- shared cultural characteristics o Ethnicity is the more useful term because race is almost entirely socially constructed o Minority group  What makes them minority?  A category of people who have less power than the dominant group, and who are subject to unequal treatment o Social capital- social networking connections, which can be a valuable resource o Different experiences based on skin color race  Prejudice (attitude)- stereotypes  Discrimination (behavior)  Individual discrimination- one or small group engaging in discriminatory actions  Institutional discrimination- macro level (ex. Columbus, Brown vs. board of education), more engrained in mainstream society  White privilege o By Peggy McIntosh o “White privilege is like an invisible weightless knapsack of special provisions…”  Racial/Ethnic family groups o Cultural equivalent- emphasizes similarities to mainstream white families o Cultural deviant- views distinguishing qualities of minority groups as negative or pathological o Cultural variant- emphasizes cultural and contextual factors when understanding minority family groups  Cultural trends on families o Fastest growing minority group? Why?  Hispanics- because of their high birth rates and high immigration rates o The “model minority”?  Asians- because they are seen as genius families have higher education availability, born into stable married family, etc.) o The highest infant mortality rate and lowest life expectancy?  Native Americans- because of high violence and suicide rates as well as substance use, much bigger emphasis on extended family (3/4 homes consist of extended families) 1/22/16  Social class o Socioeconomic status  Occupational prestige(job/rank—doctor is seen more prestigious than teacher), education, income  Classes in the US- Open class system o Gilbert and Kahl(1993) identified 6 social classes in US.  Upper class- 3% (old money)  Upper middle- 20% (doctors, etc)  Middle class- 40% (average income- work stability)  Working class-20% (lower average income- lots of blue collar)  Working poor-15% (just above poverty line- many single parent families)  Underclass-3% (unemployed)  American dream: social mobility o Upward movement from one class to another  Most will stay in the same social class they were born into  Caste system in India  o Supreme court of India ruled that social organization based on caste is inherited and cannot be changed o BUT discrimination against lower castes is illegal  46.2 million people live in Poverty in US o 1/6 Americans o Divorce can put a lot of strain on a family that had been just over the poverty line. One income then has to support two households instead of two incomes for one household.  How do you move out of poverty? o Education  FSU(in state): $21,065  Poverty line of family of 4- $23,000 ish  Influence of poverty on kids o Poor health/nutrition- cheaper to get a McDonalds cheeseburger than fresh food o “Lower quality” home environment- inconsistent parenting o Parental stress and mental health problems- higher prevalence of mental health issues in lower classes can spill over to effect child o Child behavior problems and mental health- higher levels of anxiety, acting out, violence o Fewer resources for learning o Housing problems- unstable, constant transitions o Poor quality neighborhood- high levels of crime  FAD2230 1/25/2016 Social exchange theory  Social exchange theory o Theory(Our “lens” of families)  Provide basic assumptions about nature and society  Range from macro to micro perspective  Based in utilitarian thinking  Rational choice and social exchange framework o Utility: ability of something got satisfy needs or wants, the quality or stats of being useful/profitable/beneficial o Rooted on utilitarianism- philosophical perspective that suggests that individuals rationally weigh the rewards and costs associated with behavioral choices o Utilitarian thinking  Social exchange theory and rationale choice theory  Share many of the same core concepts, assumptions, and propositions (both rooted in utilitarian thinking)  F. Ivan Nye’s (1979) application of Exchange Theory is rooted in these theories  For our purposes we will work from this interpretation and discuss the application of “Exchange Theory”  The organization of a theory o Assumption  A premise that must be accepted o Concept  Perceived pattern or regularity that exists within a theory o Proposition  A mechanism which links concepts  Exchange theory o Examines motivation (e.g.- what propels a person to act?)  Why would you… ask someone on a date/get a divorce/go out/go to family reunion/etc.? o Assumptions  Methodological individualism- (the individual is real) individual actions reflect society and social structure  Prediction and understanding come about by understanding the individual actors motivation  Why did you do that?  Actors are motivated by self-interests  Which option has the most benefit to me personally?  Actors are rational  Assumes we can calculate the ratio of costs to the rewards o Concepts  Rewards and costs  Profit or maximizing utility  Comparison level (CL) and comparison level for alternatives (CL+)  Comparing your situation/goal to another’s situation  Rationality (value of rewards changes)  Exchanges and equity- decisions are not made in isolation  Human capital and social capital- what is gained from interaction  Generalizable sources of rewards o Propositions  Actors will choose whichever behavior maximizes profit  Actors in a situation in which there are no rewards seek to minimize costs- run red light or be more late to work  What does exchange theory tell us about family? o Voluntaristic notion- we have choices, so when we engage in a relationship or a family, it was because we wanted to or that was our best option o Thus families and having kids must in some way be rewarding  Applying exchange theory to families and intimate relationships o How can exchange theory be used to understand/interpret actors behavior? o What assumptions, concepts, or propositions can you identify? o Based on exchange theory, make a prediction about what the individual/couple/family might do next 1/27/16  Symbolic interactionism framework o Symbolic interaction  Key word: symbol  Symbols can be anything that carry shared meaning  Pay attention to how events and things are interpreted  Foundation- George Herbert Mead o It is all about signs, symbols, and meaning  Not static- does not stay the same, it will change over time  Ex. “Groovy” then, “on fleek” now o Symbol- any sign agreed upon by convention  The symbol system must be relatively stable to achieve agreement o By sharing common symbols, humans can adapt to and survive their environment  Assumptions o Human behavior must be understood by the meaning of the actor  When looking at a specific behavior, we must understand the situation as perceived by actor o Actors define the meaning of context and situation  Ex- actor is running from stampede. The situation is perceived as dangerous o Individuals have minds that perceive, reason, sense, and imagine o Society precedes the individual  Concepts o The self is made up of the “I” (how I see myself) and “me” (how others might see me)  Looking glass self- the notion that the individual is capable of perceiving how their behaviors are viewed and that this information informs the self o Feedback loop  1- action  2- reaction (actual outcome)  3- Notice reaction  4- Internal change (as a result of noticing reaction to own action in comparison with a pre-set criteria or desired income  EX- Anthony is lecturing (1) half the class is on FB (2) Anthony notices they are bored (3) so he uses a personal example to get their attention (4) o Socialization is the process by which we acquire the symbols, beliefs, and attitudes of our culture o Role- the place of an individual, that he/she take within a situation, group or society  To participate in a role means it is expected that one must follow the rules of that role  Roles should be clear  Role strain is when individuals do not have enough resources to enact a role or roles  Ex- juggling many roles or having a strain on just one o Identity is formed upon the multiple roles an individual plays  Society defines your identity based on the meaning placed on roles  Individuals organize roles into a hierarchy in each situation  Enacting role of student while in class  Propositions that tell us something about families o Proposition is a mechanism that links concepts o Quality of role enactment (behavior) in a relationship affects satisfaction with that relationship  Quality of behavior affects satisfaction in relationship o The greater the perceived clarity of role expectations, the higher the quality of role enactment (behavior)  The clearer the expectations the better the behavior o The more individuals perceive consensus in their expectations about a role, the less their role strain  Consistency  Applying symbolic interactionism to families and intimate relationships o How can symbolic interaction theory be used to understand/interpret their behavior?  She perceives his roles very differently than he sees himself  Her perception: school teacher with cancer  His perception: independent, dangerous  He’s trying to balance the husband/father role with the role of provider o What assumptions, concepts, or, propositions can you identify?  Feedback loop  The self 1/29/16  Life course developmental theory  Life course developmental framework o 3 complimentary theories  Individual life span theory- individual development within context, how an individual is shaped  Family developmental theory- patterns and changes within family, dynamic  Life course theory- specific stages o It is about STAGE not age  Assumptions o Developmental processes are inevitable and important in understanding family o The family group is affected by ALL the levels of analysis o Time is multidimensional  Always moving forward through time, cant go back in time  Social process time- specific markers used to define stages  Marker- specific events that occur that impact the family (marriage, birth, death)  Concepts o Family changes and development o Positions (mother, sister, aunt etc.), norms (don’t have incest!), and roles (norms attached to a kinship position, the place that an individual takes within a family, mother, nurturer)  Stage graded o Events- any significant occurrence that has meaning to a family (birth, death, marriage) o Family stages - what goes on within a family over a period of time (beginning duration ending) o Transitions- the points of beginning or end (occurs through an event)  On or off time  Off time ex- having a child before graduating high school o Developmental tasks  Sensorimotor (0-2 years)  Preoperational (2-6 yrs.)  Concrete operational (7-12yrs)  Formal operational (12-adult yrs.) o Period, age, cohort  9/11(terrorism) and tech are important in our generation o Family life course- progression of steps (start to end point)  Family life course stages o Married couple without children o Child bearing families (oldest birth to 30 months) o Families with preschool children (oldest child 30 months to 6 years) o Families with school age children (oldest child 6-13yrs) o Families with teens (oldest child 13-20 years) o Families with launching centers(first child gone to last child leaving home) o Middle-aged parents (empty nest to retirement) o Aging family members (retirement to death)  Propositions o Families are more likely to experience disruptions when internal family norms deviate from institutional family norms o When societal timing and sequencing norms are out of sync with family development, more likely disruption will occur (generally bad outcomes) o Transitions from one stage to another are predicted by the current stage and duration of time spent in that stage  Determined by age of oldest child  Application o Couple from up- their course through life 2/1/16 IClicker Q- Grandma Jane says TV will rot child’s brain. Mom disagrees (a period effect) IClicker Q- social process time refers to an understanding of the passage of time based upon (specific family markers)- birth, death, etc. IClicker Q- Which is macro level? (NOT social exchange, symbolic interaction, development theory)  Systems Framework o General systems theory (1930s-40s) o First application to the family  Toward a theory of Schizophrenia (1956)  Notion that the schizophrenic individual is a symptom of the family system pathology rather than an individual pathology  Double bind o Root of the term “dysfunctional family” o Whole is greater than the sum of its parts  Members influence the family system  Assumptions o All parts of the system are interconnected o Understanding is only possible by viewing the whole o A systems behavior affects its environment and in turn the environment affects the systems o “Systems” are not reality (heuristics)  Practical application to the study of families. Not saying there is a specific system that exists  Concepts o System- a set of elements in interaction with each other so that what affects one element affects all other elements o Boundaries- Two types  1.) System and environment  2.) Between members of the system  Degree of permeability- refers to how open or closed the boundaries may be o Rules of transformation- rules about how information is exchanged o Feedback  Ex.- child gets a bad grade on a test, mom and dad help him (input) and child gets better grade (output) o Equilibrium  Homeostasis (Ex- air conditioner) o Subsystems  Sibling relationship within family system  Don’t appear in isolation- can impact other subsystems and system o System levels  First order- basic processes  Second order- very complex processes that occur within a system and can affect first order  Comparator  Propositions that tell us about families o The adaptability of the family system is…  Positively related to resources of the system  Negatively related to conflict and tension in the system o Second-order goals define the priorities among first-order goals, BUT they are less likely to be revised and abandoned  Second order process(being a good parent), first order process (specific parenting behavior)  Applying family systems example 1 o Everybody loves Raymond o Mom and dad are mad at each other. Mom and Dad are both mad at grandpa o Naming specific subsystem exchanges in the whole family system o Input and output effects  Output- Michael’s story  Input- shocked/embarrassed reaction of parents/family  Applying family systems example 2 o Debra explains subsystem dynamics between family members  Very negative o Degree of Permeability- nuclear family and grandparents is very open o Homeostasis- interactions (venting) o Comparator- mismatch between first and second level processes FAD2230 2/3/16 Ch. 7- Building Relationships  Purpose of friendship? o Give support o Outlet o Teach us about ourselves and others o Live longer o Better health (physical and mental) o Enhance self-esteem  Friendships (Same sex) o Do friendships operate he same way for men and women?  Jonson 2004- females do not have a greater number of friends o Different types of connection  Men- focus on activity  Women- verbal and self-disclosing  Cross sex friendships o Does friendship lead to romantic feeling of dating? OR can men and women be “just friends”?  Women view cross sex relationships differently (can be friends)  If not attracted to the other person friendship can occur  You’re able to see what the other person is like in a relationship and you can see how they act  Just friends? (Harvey 2003) o 65% received/sent mixed messages about attraction o 47% were initially attracted (friend was not); struggled to remain friends o 32% reported friend was attracted to them o 30% don’t discuss romantic feelings because it has caused discomfort in the past o 26% included some romantic/sexual behavior (“extension of friendship”) o 9% had been romantically involved, and now struggling to be friends  Why date? o Desire for marriage/family/mate selection o Desire for intimacy is a common thread o Fun o Social status o Expectations of others?  How do you define… o Dating? o Getting to know each other? o Hooking up? o Hanging out? o Just talking? o Shared meaning is needed!! o How we define our dating patterns differs every generation  Where do you start? o Pool of eligible  The group of individual who, by virtue of background or birth, are considered most likely to make compatible marriage partners  Homogamy- we tend to form relationships with those that are very similar to ourselves  Propinquity (geographic closeness) 2/5/16 Read chapters 1, 2, and 7 for exam  Marriage squeeze o China and India face crisis for ratio of men versus women  There are more men than women o US- African American males are being incarcerated and women are left with pool of eligible  Incarceration, unemployment, lower wages, morbidity/illnesses  African American men are not able to provide adequate pool of eligible for AA women  Factors that shape dating o Macro level factors  Cultural norms surrounding mate selection (do you/parents choose?)  Technology  Urbanization  Social and political movements  Dating scripts based on sex (guy pays/asks girl out/chivalry)  Racial/ethic cultural differences  Economic considerations o Micro level factors  Personal whims  Friends, connection, and ways to meet new people  Propinquity  Size of pool of eligible people o How do these factors impact dating?  Technology widens pool  Less frequent to date outside religion  Having a job shows responsibility o What do you consider when deciding on a date? What is important to you?  Dating may be focused more on looks, advantages to being with that person, adventures  Marriage focuses on a person with a drive  Assortative mating o Ex: consider for dating- attraction, values, personality o Consider for marriage- conflict, freedom o People are willing to date a wider variety of people than they would consider marrying o Same sex have a much smaller pool to choose from  How has dating changed? o Colonial times  Courtship= family centered process o Industrialization  Emergence of dating and adolescence  Mandatory education, new labor laws o Today  Dating “rules” aren’t as strict  Less limitations (mixed race couples, same sex)  Technology helps  Many relationships are for fun and not such an emphasis on a checklist for marriage  Hooking up- an event in which two people are physically intimate outside a committed relationship without the expectation of future encounters  Hooking up o No differences in rate of hooking up for  Guys or girls  Different religious groups  Family environment o More likely to  Be white/Caucasian  Report higher parental income  Use more alcohol  Have more favorable attitudes towards hooking up o Women more likely to have a negative reaction to hooking up  Post sexual revolution: cohabitation o Cohabitation  What does it mean to cohabit?  Attitude vs. action  Why do people cohabit?  Used as a test/substitute for marriage  Who?  Many different ages o Couples will be happier in marriage if they live together first o It’s a good idea for couples to live together before getting married as a way to “try out” the relationship o Is cohabitation a good “test” for marriage?  Cohabiting relationships do not last very long  People who cohabit are MORE likely to have an unhappy marriage and subsequent divorce  Selection effort- certain characteristics  Causal link o How do you define single?  Voluntary temporary singles  Voluntary stable singles  Involuntary temporary singles  Involuntary stable singles Exam 1  50 multiple choice o half content(ch. 1-2) o half theory o FAD2230 2/10/16 Ch. 8- Love and Loving Relationships  Love languages (Gary Chapman) o Words of affirmation o Acts of service o Receiving gifts o Quality time o Physical touch o Do partners always speak the same love language?  No but that doesn’t mean they don’t love each other  Love is….(definition) o Strong affection for one another arising out of kinship or personal ties o Attraction based on sexual desire o Affection based on admiration, benevolence, or common interests  Love is… (Components) o An enduring bond between two or more people (longevity) o Based on affection and emotion (feelings) o Includes a feeling of obligation toward another (element of responsibility)  Does relational conflict impact the… o Sustainability of relationships? o Quality of relationships? o Commitment to relationships?  Learn about love early in life may be the first thing we learn  Attachment Theory o John Bowlby o Mary Ainsworth o How does childhood attachment style develop into a working model of adult romantic relationships?  Working models can be thought of as “cognitive maps that permit successful navigation of an organisms environment; unlike maps, however, working models are not static representation but can grow and change. Working models guide an individuals behavior…” o Secure attachment—70% securely attached o Insecure attachment  Anxious ambivalent—15%  Avoidant—15%  Disorganized/fearful—form in abusive relationships  Attachment in romantic relationships o Secure attachment  “I find it easy to get close to others”  Generally don’t worry about being abandoned o Anxious attachment  Other people don’t seem to want to get as close as I do o Avoidant attachment  I’m not comfortable being close to others o Disorganized/fearful  I sometimes worry I will be hurt if I allow myself to become too close to others 2/12/16 Biological  Sociobiological—instinct to pass on genes Biochemical perspective  Humans are attracted to certain people  Then, the brain releases natural chemicals  Gives a rush as we experience attraction Dopamine: Naturally produced in our brains; acts upon the pleasure center  When people are newly in love, they tend to have higher brain levels of dopamine Oxytocin: the “love” or the “cuddle” hormone  Related to feelings of deep friendship, trust, sexuality, love, bonding, and commitment  Facilitates nurturing behaviors 3 Micro-level Approaches Triangular Theory of Love (Sternberg) Passion + Intimacy + Commitment  Passion—Physical attraction, romance, sexual arousal o Quickest to develop and quickest to fade  Intimacy—Closeness and bonding (self-disclosure, respect, trust, warmth) o Develops more slowly  Commitment—Determination to develop the relationship (expecting the “good” and the “bad”) o Develops gradually Styles of Love (Lee)  Eros—passionate, strong physical attraction  Storge—companionate, mutual love, respect and trust  Pragma—practical, sensible  Ludus—playful carefree, casual  Agape—altruistic, kind, patient—theoretical style made by Lee— not seen often because it is completely selfless love  Mania—obsessive, possessive, intense Wheel Theory of Love Development (Reiss)  Rapport—sharing interests and activities  Self-revelation—sharing intimate information  Mutual dependency—depend on partner  Personality need fulfillment—lives intertwined Macro-Level Approaches Do Americans generally marry their cousins? NO—not culturally acceptable Does your family prepare (or receive) a dowry for (or from) your future in-laws? —No not common in our culture or time period Love: Men vs. Women  Who is more likely to o Be looking for a relationship? o Report falling in love sooner? 2/15/16  Love: Men vs. Women o Men are most likely to be looking to relationship/fall in love sooner o Feminization of love- thinking that its all women  Women are always trying to find love  Do men and women care differently? o Not really, but.. o When we consider Lee’s Styles of love we see that..  Men tend to be more ludus(carefree)  Women lean toward storge and pragma(more practical) (Henrick and Hendrick 2009) o Both men and women value psychic and sexual intimacy  Do men and women have different attitudes about sex? o The gender similarities hypothesis  Only differ in motor skills and elements of sexuality(attitudes- like casual sex and masturbation) o Views on sex  Women are looked down on for having more sexual partners and men are encouraged  Sex may carry a lot more meaning for women  Women are hyper sexualized with very little clothing (bikini, lingerie) and men are sexualized with more clothing (suits)  Lingerie football league vs NFL (double standard gender issue)  Dress code is not enforced equally (girls must follow dress code in order to not distract guys) o Sexual script- the norms or rules regarding sexual behavior that govern who, what, where, when, how, and why we have sex  Lets apply our research plan o Research question theory hypothesis research methodology o RQ- Are there differences in sexual attitudes between undergraduate men and women? o Theory- Symbolic interactionism  Feedback loop  Roles- women believe they have to be a mother, make their husband happy through sex, looking sexy o Hypothesis- There will be differences between the two o Research Methodology- quantitative/qualitative  Quantitative approach  Do you and your grandparents have different attitudes about sex?  Data analysis and interpretation assignment! FAD2230 2/22/16 Ch.10- communication, conflict and power  What do we mean by communication? o What is communication?  An interactive process that uses symbols like words and gestures to both send and receive messages o Concepts of communication (West and Turner 2006)  Communication is a transaction  Communication is a process  Communication includes co-construction of meanings  Communication uses symbols  What theory does this sound like—symbolic interactionism  Communication and meaning o Symbolic interactionism  Communication is symbolic- words, gestures, and actions have meaningi o Assumptions of symbolic interactionism  Human behavior must be understood by the meaning of the actor  Actors define the meaning of context and situation  Individuals have minds that perceive, reason, sense, and imagine  Society precedes the individual  Types of communication o Listening  Active listening- extremely attentive listening, there the listener has good eye contact and body language and encourages the other person to continue talking  Modern day has many distractions o Verbal communication  Spoken exchanges of thoughts, feelings, etc.  Different languages can cause obstacles o Nonverbal communication  Communication without words  Gestures, expressions and body language o Written electronic communication NO CLASS 2/24/16 2/26/16  Do men and women communicate differently? o Type of speech  Women may verbalize more  Women may be more likely to make accurate assumptions on nonverbal communication  Self disclosure- sharing private info about yourself that the other person would not know o Quantity  Who talks more?  Society assumes women. Research says… o Sample of 396 college students aged 17- 29 recorded over a few days. The ave. number of words a day for  Men was 15,669  Women was 16,215 o Connection vs. Content  Women- much more personal/private convos  Men- more about the content of conversation  What shapes our communication? o Race and ethnicity  Ebonics (African American English) vs. Standard American English o Social class  Politician speeches based on the crowd  The way you speak to your mother is different than how you speak to your professor o Cultural differences  Barriers of communication o Bypassing- Something said can have multiple meanings  Hooking up, love you o Biased language- bias against another group  “That’s so gay” o Lack of precision- mistake a word for another  “I literally died” o Overgeneralization- sweeping generalizations without enough evidence to back up  May emphasize never/always o Polarization- specific extremes, no gray area  “This is all your fault” o Static evaluation- judge on a single event that may not be relevant anymore  “I’m never going to get married” ten years later get married and somebody brings up the old statement  Huge Gator fan and talked trash about FSU didn’t get into UF huge FSU fan o Do’s and Don’ts  Do describe your feelings. Don’t evaluate behavior of others.  Do solve problems. Don’t try to control others.  Do be genuine. Don’t be manipulative.  Do empathize. Don’t remain detached.  Do be flexible. Don’t be rigid.  Do present self as an equal. Don’t present self as superior.  What makes communication in romantic relationships different? o Self disclosure- sharing private info about yourself that the other person would not know o Wheel Theory o Conflict  Disagree over—  Decision making, problem solving, or achieving goals  Unavoidable  Not inherently negative  Types of conflict  (easiest to manage) Pseudo conflictcontent conflictvalue conflictego conflict (most difficult to manage) 2/29/16  How do we communicate and deal with conflict? o Regulating couples- use intimacy, closeness, and constructive statements o Nonregulated couples- far more negative interactions  Four horsemen of the apocalypse  Criticism o Making disapproving judgments or evaluations of ones partner o How is it demonstrated?  Pointing out flaws and imperfections o The antidote- focus on what’s working, what’s right work on “I” statements and away from “You/we”  Defensiveness o Defending ones self against a presumed attack o How is it demonstrated?  Point fingers, blame, counter attack o The antidote- accepting or entertaining the perspective of ones partner without counter attacking  Contempt o An attitude of superiority o How is it demonstrated?  Talking down to the partner  Rolling ones eyes o The antidote- create culture of appreciation in the relationship  Stonewalling o Resistance or refusing to listen to ones partner, especially their complaints o How is it demonstrated?  Flat affect, non-use of non-verbal cues of listening o The antidote- engaging in the relationship  Fifth horsemen?  Belligerence o A provocative behavior that challenges the spouses power and authority o How is it demonstrated?  “What are you going to do about it?”  “So what, what if I do huh? What can you do?” o The antidote- try to make a repair attempt, make it known that the relationship is getting off track FAD2230 2/29/16 Ch. 11- Marriage  Marriage: All over the world o Find marriage in every human society o In the US we marry for  Benefits  Love/soul mate (88% of reason for marrying today)  Financial reasons o Other countries marry for  Extended family  Creating and raising children  Continuing family lineage  Restricting love o Child marriage- betrothed to marry (or married) prior to puberty o Kinship rules- defining who can be married (caste system in India) o Segregation- diminishing cross-sex interaction o Close supervision- supervising/monitoring children o Relative freedom- managing the social environment 3/2/16  What is happening in marriage today? o Two perspectives  Marital decline  Marriage is being threatened by hedonistic pursuit of personal happiness  “Evidence”- collapse of values in marriage, which has lead to societal problems  Marital resilience  Marriages are no weaker than in the past  People are more cautious about entering marriage  Problems with family instability are driven by other social problems (lack of resources, etc.)  Marriage is changing in the US o Decline in marriage rates  Decline in marriage rates particularly among blacks— high unemployment, skewed sex rate, higher dropout rate, assumption in black community is that marriage is not important to life, this causes a much smaller pool of eligible o Delaying marriage  If you delay marriage there is more opportunity for  Singlehood  Cohabitation  Nonmarital sex  Nonmarital childbearing o Homogenous vs. heterogamous marriages  Homogenous- share certain social characteristics with spouse (race, age, ethnicity, education, and class)  Heterogamous- don’t share those social characteristics  Interracial marriage o Anti-miscegenation Laws- forbid interracial marriages  Marriage across social classes  Interfaith marriages- on average those with similar belief systems last longer and are typically happier o Same sex marriages  May shift marriage rates up o Changing attitudes about marriage  Nonmarital sex  Cohabitation  Nonmarital childbearing  Shared bread winning  Division of household labor  Even though we see these shifts people still HIGHLY value marriage, want to marry, and view a “good marriage” as important  Most people believe nonmarital sex and childbearing as well as cohabitation is more widely accepted 3/4/16  What is a genogram?--> Genogram Project o Graphical representation of a family tree that displays detail data on relationships between individuals o Commonly includes  Basic family data- name, sex, dates of birth, dates of death  Relationship data- marriages, divorces, separations, emotional connections 3/14/16  Does marriage benefit everyone equally?  Marriage premium o Married people are happier, healthier, financially better off than those who are not married o Selection effect hypothesis- people who marry are different from those who do not marry  Married couples look out for one another  How would you define marital satisfaction and success? o Communication, trust, financial stability, commitment, strong relationship with their children, intimacy, acceptance of differences, compromise, proper expectations o Over arching concepts- stability and quality 3/16/16  Types of long term marriages o Conflict- habituated  Verbal conflict, high levels of tension, partners don’t necessarily think there’s anything wrong o Devitalized  No passion, empty love, commitment only, engage in marriage out of sense of obligation o Passive-congenial  Don’t expect much intimacy in relationship, very little conflict, very little excitement, did not expect to go into marriage o Vital  High level physical/emotional intimacy, communication, compromise o Total  Very much like “Vital” but very few independent interests, always together and completely dependent on each other  How do you measure marital satisfaction? o Survey questions o Look into specific traits o Case study o Daily diary method o 75% of people say they are happy with marriage at least ¾ of the time o About 60% of people say they are “very happy” in their marriage  Marital satisfaction- other factors o Relationship with parents o Quality and stability of parents’ marriage  If parents are divorced, it is more likely you will get divorced o Shared values, goals, and characteristics o Religious faith and practice o Frequency and satisfaction of sex o Satisfaction with gender roles and shared tasks FAD2230 3/16/16 Ch. 12- Thinking about Parenthood  Three emerging options/trends o Remaining child free


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