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Six months ago an old school friend and l were chatting over coffee putting the world to rights as women do She was her lack of success in meeting the A right sortA of men I asked her if s Alpha advice Six months ago an old school friend and l were chatting over coffee putting the world to rights as women do She was bemoaning her lack of success in meeting the A right sortA of men asked her if she had tried using an internet dating service and the look of horror that spread across her face gave the instant answer A of course not Internet dating she informed me was for the sad desperate geeky or freaky Sadly this type of response is typical of people from all walks of life Why sadly Because those who instantly dismiss such services are missing out on a great opponun y J r 739 Ki 7 w w r f39 a l if illfl u iii i it illquotl 23 it Lita m 339 irit1fulrjf quotFinrmi i w mi HIM 1 a reaffirmfatty irrriigirri39 i ll ill I uia um shit 1 I m 39a V R it It t H E H The traditional argument for not using the internet to meet someone is that it is not natural So what is natural Where have people traditionally met their husbands wives lovers and friends Statistically over the past 50 years the most common place for meeting ones spouse has been the workplace This is hardly surprising given the ever increasing amounts of time most people are finding themselves working Other common meeting places include bars nightclubs and parties and some lucky few meet their lifetime partner early in life at college or university However the workplace remains number one for long term relationships The reason for this is simple lasting long term relationships are usually born out of robust friendships and strong friendships form over time Spend eight hours a day five days a week with the same people and you will get to know them very well It is not uncommon in the modern world to spend more time with your colleagues than with your family an unfortunate but true fact of life The increasing amounts of time we as a society are spending working is leaving less time to spend in social environments outside of the office which means less opportunity to meet new people So if you donA t meet someone at work where else is there Enter the dating agency Dating agencies are not a new idea they have been around a very long time The internet has simply served as a new medium for bringing people together in a tried and tested way that agencies have used for years However it offers some unique advantages for those seeking a partner Firstly it has lowered the cost of running a dating service and that means agency dating has been opened up to a much wider audience Secondly it has broken down geographical barriers in a way that offline agencies could never hope to This is an important point because not everyone is looking for their future husband or wife on their doorstep Indeed not everyone is looking for a future husband or wife the explosion in internet dating has made it easier than ever to find new friends and correspondents across the globe These two points mean that some of the bigger agency sites now have in excess of three million members and literally thousands of new members joining every day With that many people if you are serious about finding a partner lover or a friend then the internet is simply too big a resource to ignore And A net dating is safe too there is no need to exchange real names or even email addresses until you feel you know someone well enough swaggal dgitlal marine inferattife mafia HID All the services allow you to block unwanted communication and so there is no fear of being pestered Used sensibly internet dating can be safer than almost any other way of meeting people The internet has revolutionised the way we work shop conduct our financial affairs and entertain ourselves To use it as a medium for meeting new people is a logical step in our fast changing world I After that chat six months ago I convinced my Alpha advice friend to post a profile on a dating site she didnA t even have to pay anything to do so unless she wanted to start sending messages to other members of the site Now I never see her because she is spending all of her time with her new man She didnA t find him in five minutes like some of the sales pitches would like you to believe but then six months ago she didnA t expect to find him at all Article Tags Alpha advice
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