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CDFR 3306 Week 1 Notes

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East Carolina Dr. Hedge Chapter 1 book notes and powerpoint notes "Thinking About Guidance and Discipline" Organized by subtitles and color!
Guiding Children's Behavior
Dr. Hedge
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Date Created: 05/19/16
Chapter One: Thinking About Guidance and Discipline Historical Foundations  Puritan belief said, “that children are born evil and they are stubborn”  Harsh and restrictive parenting was considered important for children  Children were dressed in stiff and uncomfortable clothing  These ideas were later brought to the US and Europe. Thus harsh parenting gained prevalence  However, they also later emphasized the importance of education. Through education they believed children will gain self-control and will be self-disciplined New and positive philosophies put the children into focus  John Locke – Child as a “Tabula Rasa” – Blank Slate  Children begin with nothing, its experiences that shape their personality and behavior  Parents can mold children’s behavior according to their wishes  He thought hard discipline was not necessary for children. One can mold children’s behavior in a positive fashion based on rewards  “The child is a small letter, yet the best copy of ADAM… His soul is yet a while paper unscribbled with observations… and he knows no evil”  IMPLICATIONS: Outlook towards children was changed from harshness to kindness, environment had a powerful role to play in children’s development, children as a passive being was emphasized  Jean Jacques Rousseau  They are not blank slates waiting to be written upon or filled with adult instruction  Instead they are “Nobel Savages”  Naturally endowed with a sense of right and wrong and have an innate plan for orderly and healthy growth  Unlike Locke, Rousseau believed that children do have a built in sense of morality, and this unique way of morality would be hampered if adults keep on training them  This was the beginning to the child centered philosophy  Implications: Children were viewed as active, organisms, built in the belief that children unfold at every stage of development: infancy, childhood, late childhood, and adolescence in a genetically predetermined way. Thus adults have to be supportive towards children’s development  Friedrich Forebel  Believed early years are the most critical in shaping children’s future  Further, he thought that nature of the child was essentially good and the “faults” (behaviors) were the product of particular experiences  “There are many faults… Which arise through carelessness. When children act on impulse which in itself may be harmless or ever praiseworthy, they can become so entirely absorbed that they have no thought for the consequences, and indeed from their own limited experience can have no knowledge of them”  “Moreover, it is certainly trust that has a rule the child is first made bad by some other person, often by the educator himself. This can happen when everything which the child does out of ignorance or thoughtlessness or even from a keen sense of right and wrong is attributed to an intention to do evil. Unhappily there are among teachers those who always see children as mischievous, spiteful… whereas others seen at most overexuberant sense of life or a situation which has got out of hand”  John Dewey  “If you have the end in view of forty or fifty children learning certain set of lessons, to be recited to the teacher you discipline must be devoted to securing that result. But if the end in view is the development of the spirit of social cooperation and community life…” T  Then “BE IT” – We have to prepare citizens for democratic society  Rudolph Dreikurs  He is the first who talked about positive classroom management or positive discipline for children  He believed that one should be working with children rather than in opposition to children  Teachers need to be “leaders rather than bosses” in their work with children  He believed that every behavior of the child is goal directed and the most preeminent goal of behavior is “SOCIAL ACCEPTANCE”  “Behavior is Purposive or goal directed… humans are social beings which the overriding goal of belonging or finding a place in the society… the child’s behavior indicates the ways and means by which he tries to be significant. If these ways and means are antisocial and disrupting, then the child did not develop the right idea about how to find his place. The antisocial ways or mistaken goals reflects an error in the child’s judgment and his comprehension of life and the necessities of social living”  “To understand the child we need to understand the purpose”  Haim Ginott  Helped us articulate the understanding of guidance  “Where do we start if we want to improve life in a classroom? Be examining how we respond to children. How a teacher communicates is a decisive importance. It affects a child’s life for good or bad. Unusually we are not overly concerned about whether one’s response conveys acceptance or rejection. Yet to a child this difference is fateful, if not fatal” Child Guidance and Discipline  Child guidance and discipline is incredibly complex, confusing and frustrating (e.g. party)  There are no simple solutions, effect discipline requires understanding developmental level of the child, situations (e.g. ignoring behavior of children), commitment towards children, and patience  (Deal with the problem and not just resolve it)  Guidance: associated with helping kids deal with problems (as in guidance counselor Defining Discipline What it is  Help children learn personal responsibility for the behavior and judge between what is right and wrong (e.g. food eating)  Helping children make wise choices about what they should do and why (e.g. share or cooperate, e.g. Hailey)  Reason out with the child (e.g. Jamie)  Gain internal control  Try to eliminate the cause (Diagnostic teaching) What it is not  Merely stopping unproductive actions  Just enforcing rules  Just punish or reward the child  Just have external controls in life  Just believe what you see Goals of Discipline Long – Term (ends and means are inseparable  What kind of people do you value in life?  What kind of people function best in society (e.g. Jong)? Self-Concept (who we are and what we can do) and self-esteem (how we feel about that)  Provide a basis for good self-concept and good self-esteem  Lecturing, bullying, bribing don’t really help Self-Discipline  What leads to the path of self-discipline? (Rewards for good, punishment for bad)  Helping children self regulate their own behaviors? Moral Autonomy  Guided and governed by their own beliefs and understanding (Reason, Understand and Apply that rule to their own life)  Heteronomy – being governed or ruled by somebody else (Blind Conformity to Rules)  A person is kind to others because of their personal feelings of respect for others (You don’t respect somebody because you have to)  AUTONOMY DOES NOT MEAN LACK OF CONTROL. IT MEANS SOURCE OF CONTROL.  Autonomy does not mean right to make decisions, but that ability to make decisions  In a morally autonomous person, SOURCE OF CONTROL LIES WITHIN HIMSELF/HERSELF Long-Term vs. Quick Fix Solutions What do we as individuals fall succumb to these quick fix solutions?  We are stressed  We don’t know what is the right thing to do in a particular situation  We are raised like that  It works most of the time But can we afford to overlook these long-term goals? Discipline Models Baumerind (Demand and Responsiveness)  Authoritarian: Adults make all the decisions, any deviation is punished  Authoritative: Shared power (They are supportive and assertive)  Permissive: Child makes all the decisions Greenberg (Forms of discipline with forms of government)  Autocratic = Dictatorship – adult holding power  Anarchy = Overly permissive  Democratic = Shared power Relating Discipline Styles to Learning Theories  Authoritarian – Behaviorist (molding behavior with reward and punishment  Permissive – Maturationist (believes time is the best teacher)  Authoritative – Constructivist (children learn though their experiences, they are active in their development and adults play and active role in guiding children’s behavior) Child Outcomes Associated with Discipline Models  Authoritarian – Associated with anger, depression, low self-esteem, and inability to make self-directed choices  Permissive – Associated with low self-esteem and difficulty getting along with others  Authoritative – Associated with high self-esteem, good social skills, general competence, self discipline (chances, experiences, and opportunities) Constructivist  Constructivism helps children learn from their experiences and from reflecting on those experiences  Gradually they believe this ability of self reflection will help children become autonomous (e.g. Tyler)  This will be established through mutually caring and respectful relationships between the adults and peers  These interactions will encourage children to think about the effects of their behavior on other people  Emphasis on respect Models of Discipline and Constructivism  Autocratic Government – Authoritarian: Adult makes all the decisions, any deviation is punished – Behaviorist (rewards and punishment)    Anarchy Government – Permissive – Maturationist (believes time is the best teacher)    Democratic Government – Authoritative shared power (Supportive and assertive) – Constructive   Constructivist approach is NOT the middle ground between behaviorist and Maturationist – it is NOT a “nicer” approach to obedience (strives for MUCH MORE THAN OBDEIENCE) Teaching Moral Autonomy Mutual Respect  Mutual respect between the adult and child is the foundation of moral autonomy – child must want to maintain a relationship with the adult  Kindness, respect, and affection (both sided)  Investing time and energy (talk to child, listen to the child, interaction with the child)  Calling the child sloppy when something falls on the ground, or yelling at the child in an angry tone overrides the purpose of teaching or respect Helping children understand  Children need to learn why a behavior is desirable or undesirable  The things that are obvious to you may not be obvious to them – words are helpful but experiences are important (e.g. the child asking questions that are not appropriate)  Rather than yelling for water fallen on the floor. Make Erin clean that water from the floor  Child knocks somebody’s blocks in the block area. Rather than yelling, help the child restore the situation Learn reasons behind rules and requests  Children often learn meaningless words of apology or appreciation with not idea what they mean (Fine Thank You Madam)  Problem solving takes time and practice Example Erin and Jamie (3 years old) are fighting over a doll “I had it first”  One can simply say, can’t you share  Remove from their hand and say nobody gets it  Try to figure out who had it first  OR HELP THEM UNDERSTAND HOW TO RESOLVE THAT CONFLICT (think about their behavior and solve the problem – long term goal) Children need to be taught that other people have needs and feelings that are different from their own – understand how their behavior is affecting others Children need our constant support Teaching Moral Autonomy Guiding choices  Constructivist approach allows children to make as many choices as possible (you help them make choices, not make choices for them)  As children learn to regulate their own behavior that make both good and bad choices (necessary for them to make some “bad” choices, but be there to support them)  “Fighting with a friend and then feeling left out”  Some choices are not appropriate for children to make (putting their hand in an electrical socket)  Conflicts and problems are potential learning situations and opportunities for adults to offer meaningful teaching Treating the cause rather than the behavior  One must seek to understand why a behavior occurred  Spilling water – immature coordination, attention seeking, having too much fun with water  Can we have the same discipline for different causes (time out)?  Different causes of behavior point to different solutions (matching discipline and guidance approached to behavior  Observation of a child is very important  Usual or unusual behavior, under what circumstances did this situation happen, is there a pattern  Never underestimate that you may have caused a discipline problem  If you use the same discipline technique for all the problems surely you have caused a problem Discovering Causes of Behavior Problems Ask yourself the following:  Is the environment meeting the child’s needs?  Is the program meeting the child’s needs?  Are the behavioral expectations appropriate for this child?  Does the child have unmet physical or emotional needs?  Is this child missing some social skill?  Does this child need help with communication skills?  Does this child understand why a behavior is important?  Has this child learned inappropriate ways of getting needs met? To conclude “The skills of problem solving, predicting consequences, and planning ahead are vital for children to escape the cultural of violence” Chapter 1 Book Notes Defining Discipline Guidance: is usually associated with helping kids deal with problems (as in guidance counselor) Discipline: helping children learn personal responsibility for their behavior and the ability to judge between right and wrong for themselves  We want to help children learn to make wise choices about what they should do  Advocating approaches that help children understand why certain behaviors are better than others, and that help children choose to act in a desirable manner, whether or not an adult is there to “catch” them at it – individualized to the needs and abilities of each child  Key element in the process is determining the cause of undesirable behaviors and working to eliminate that cause The Goals of Discipline Long-Term Goals  In order to examine long-term goals, you may find it useful to ask yourself what kind of people you value  Early discipline influences character for a lifetime’ therefore, it is essential to think about what kind of people function best in society rather than merely considering what king of children are easiest to manage Self-Concept and Self-Esteem Self-Concept is an understanding of who we are and what we can do; self-esteem is how we feel about that  A realistic self-concept is essential for mental health and can provide the basis for developing good self-esteem  Children often aren’t really listened to, and are routinely treated with much less respect than adults are—they are lectured, ignored, bullied, and bribed in ways no adult would ever put up with Self-Discipline Some people believe that rewards for acceptable behavior and punishments for unacceptable behavior lead to self-discipline. Such viewpoints do not recognize that being manipulated by reward and punishment is vastly different from learning about what is right and how to make wise and caring decisions ***Children can’t learn to regulate their own behavior as long as others are regulating it for them*** Moral Autonomy Autonomy: means being governed and guided by your own beliefs and understandings  “Ability to make decisions for oneself about right and wrong, independent of reward or punishment, by taking relevant factors into account” – Piaget’s theory of autonomy  The morally autonomous person is kind to others out of personal feelings of respect for other human beings  Morally autonomous persons do not join in inappropriate group activities in order to be accepted by their peers  Does not mean lack of control; rather, it refers to the source of control (within themselves) Heteronomy: being governed or ruled by someone else  Is kinds to others only if that behavior is rewarded, or if there is the possibility that the absence of that behavior could be discovered and punishment could be imposed  Likely to act irresponsibly when there are no external controls  Experience control only when someone else is present; they depend on an external judge to reward and punish their behavior Long-Term vs. Quick-Fix Solutions “ One mother reports that she was powerfully motivated to help her some Michael learn self-discipline when she thought about him getting a driver’s license in 10 years… She knew that inner controls would stay with Michael long after she couldn’t. Therefore, she focused on discipline approaches that fostered inner control rather than obedience.” Discipline Models Compared Because we view discipline as teaching, we believe it makes sense to based guidance and discipline on learning theory. Therefore, we compare the guidance approaches according to which learning theory they most closely fit  Behaviorist  Maturationist  Constructivist  Constructivism helps children learn from their experiences and from thinking about those experience  Through this process, the learner is assisted in gaining increasingly sophisticated levels of understanding. Thus, children gradually develop the ability to take many relevant factors into consideration when deciding what action is best for all concerned.  Constructivists recognize that teaching young children involves accepting immature thinking and requires working in conjunction with maturation to help children move to greater understanding Discipline Goals Compared THEORY PROCESS GOAL Behaviorist Molds behavior via rewards Obedience and punishment Constructivist Helps children learn from Moral Autonomy experience and reasoning Maturationist Believes time is the best Individual Development teacher Authoritarian model – obedience is the target behavior; prefers unquestioning and immediate obedience  Reward and punishment  Associated with anger and depression, low self-esteem and the inability to make self-directed choices Permissive Model – emphasizes individual freedom, although it can also be a result of neglect  Lack of discipline  Low self-esteem and difficulty getting along with others Constructivist Model – works towards moral autonomy: self-determined and responsible behavior, showing concern for the good of others and for oneself as well  Acknowledges the complexity of the ever-changing world; therefore, it teaches children to think for themselves about desirable and undesirable actions rather than telling them predetermined answers to current dilemmas  Instructive Discipline: aimed at helping children construct socially productive behavior rules and values for themselves  High self-esteem, good social skills, general competence, and self-discipline  Help most children quickly learn to negotiate solutions to problems, to resolve their own conflicts and to self-direct their learning activity {Kohn’s Unconditional Parenting: Moving from Rewards and Punishment to Love and Reason} BE SURE TO WARN FAMILIES ABOUT ONE OF THE MOST COMMON AND MOST DEVASTATING REWARD/PUNISHMENT APPROACHES: MAKING PARENTAL LOVE AND APPROVAL CONDITIONAL ON OBEDIENCE Teaching For Moral Autonomy: The Constructivist Approach 1. Mutual Respect – it is just as important for you to treat the child with respect as it is for the child to trust you with response 2. Constructivist teachers always strive to help children understand why a behavior is desirable or undesirable 3. Providing age-appropriate choices for kids and supporting them in solving their own problems is a way of showing respect for children and also a way of teaching, thinking, and assisting understanding 4. When undesirable behavior occurs, your discipline efforts must address the cause of the behavior for effective teaching to take place Mutual Respect  Having a relationship with a child requires investing time in getting to know children as individual and attempting to understand them  Spending time with a kid and listening to that child not only helps and adult understand the child, but also demonstrates respect  It is also important to be aware of how your attitude is projected – anger or disgust in your expression or tone of voice can override even the most carefully chosen words Helping Children Understand  You need to help kids learn the reasons behind rules and requests  Usually young children need experiences to help them understand explanations Learning to concerned the viewpoints of others in making decision is a part of learning moral autonomy  According to Piaget, we also teach moral autonomy and the necessary understanding of others’ views when we help children realize the effects of their behavior rather than merely punishing it.  Problem Solving – young children have limited reasoning ability but they become more capable when encouraged to discuss their different views YOUR JOB IS TO HELP CHILDREN LEARN HOW TO MAKE WISE CHOICES, NOT TO MAKE ALL THE CHOICES FOR THEM. *** conflicts and problems are seen as potential learning situations and opportunities to offer meaningful teaching Observing to Discover the Cause  Observe the child carefully and record your observations; usual, unusual, circumstances  Communicating with parents and keeping careful records of child behavior are both indispensable parts of determining the cause of problems – assessing social learning needs as well as finding the causes for the behavior How discipline problems can we caused 1. Teach expectations that don’t match the child’s development, temperament, or culture 2. Inappropriate school environments 3. Undesirable adult examples and communication


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