Dating, Courtship and Marriage Week 3 Notes
Dating, Courtship and Marriage Week 3 Notes CDFS 4340
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The Contemporary Family CDFS 4340 Week 3 Notes: 9/7/16 “Dating, Cohabitation & Marriage” *Group discussion: Family Feud* >Courtship (Dating) -Functions of dating -Evolutions and history >Traditional Date: -Victorian Era: Men courted women with supervision -Dating is an “invention” of 1920s -Courting (more individualized) >Dating today: -Traditional dating is dead -Dating in groups - More common to date after hanging out -Online, books -Hook-up setting: Often follows alcohol intake >Where do relationships come from? -Made official through “the talk” (are we together, is this a thing, etc) -Relationship ambiguity >Gender and Hook-Up: Women: Sluts Men: “The Man” *This is a double-standard* >Rational vs. Recreational Sex: -Rational (National survey): Women: Sex in relationships Men: More recreational >What has changed? -Birth control -Abortions in 70’s legalized -Oral sex: More accepted in younger generation, SO people are marrying later. >Cohabitation (Changes in dating have led to cohabitation): -1960: 439,000 cohabitating -2013: 8,100,100 cohabitating -Biggest increase in cohabitation between 70’s and 80’s. -Increased by: Stability of marriage, children, sexual relations outside of marriage, birth control, religion (becoming more lenient). -As of 2013, age of marriage is: Women: 26 Men: 28 -Higher earning males/lower-earning females= quick to marry -Individualistic, materialistic, less family oriented (cohabiters) -More accepting of divorce (cohabiters) -Children of divorced parents are more likely to cohabitate >Marriage: -High levels of stress: Marital distress -Young adults value: Flexibility, autonomy, potential to upgrade relationships -Biggest factor: Stress from work (Most stressful job: Police officers) -Over half of marriages after age 21 make it with no divorce >Disagreeing: -Active listening (Gottman): Speak to one another as a therapist to a client -Use “I” statements: “I feel like you’re not doing your share of housework.” -Respond by paraphrasing what was said and empathize: “Sounds like you’re upset about this.” It’s all about tone. >Answers to slides 28-40: D, C,C,B,A,A,F,F,F,A,F,F,F