Weekly Notes HDFS 1600
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This 3 page Class Notes was uploaded by Kyler Garron on Tuesday October 6, 2015. The Class Notes belongs to HDFS 1600 at University of Missouri - Columbia taught by David Schramm in Fall 2015. Since its upload, it has received 28 views. For similar materials see Foundations of Family Studies in Human Development at University of Missouri - Columbia.
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Wednesday December 16 y HDFS Chapter 7 Marriage continued Surprising findings getting a divorce sometimes doesn39t make people happier 86 of couples who indicate that they were unhappin married and had thought about divorce at some point during their marriage found that they were quitevery happy 5 years later permanent marital unhappiness is surprisingly rare among couples who stick it out Three Sources of Our Problems Ignorance lack of knowledge education or awareness incompetence inability to function properly even with knowedge education or Pmblem awareness Ign rance Not reading or learning yisiteducationall wellosites Resistance to abilith PQSItIlE Read good relationship PWquot Wle mUdEl5 Ask nappy couples how they do it betrayal rsk religious leaders family and friends Incompetence falot practicing what you Practice using what you haye haye learned learned in your own Poor role modell sj r 39Elatililrl hill tack of skill to do HUME Plait With YDUF lZ39all tl IEI i di Ferently Resistance to Refusing to do what you Giye up resistance to ernggje lce belieye is right to do conscience and what you Refugimg 133 LEE believe is right about how to knowledge and skills you treat Whats haye constructiyely Lise knowlge and skill in being true to conscience Wednesday December 16 y Quality relationships are much more about willingness than skill although skill is important Humans an a more sense 1 Think of a time in the past where you felt like something was right to do for someone else and yeu did it Think of s time in the past where yu felt like something was right to do for semeene else and you did not do it SELF BETRAYAL Often we have a I a CHOICE When we see people In an IIt way we see them as 1 obstacles standing in the way 2 vehicles able to help us or Honerthe sense I continue to see Jamie as a person Help Jamie by helping the Daley tl see her as a PtHSUN Wiltl39ll needs cares erries and fears that matter like mine do lldly Heart is at Peace Betsey tine sense I lbsgin to see Jamie in ways thatjustify my selfbetrayal She becomes an IDBJEGT of blame 3 simply irrelevant llikeimsself My HeartGoestoWar View of myself View at Jamie IIt and lYeu Making each of these terms Betlf ll a 39 f o39lf39d flal p 7 V gt r r evrlctlm Robs me sf sleep a smgle word sngnlfles that the self a V H r r V 3 Bed lbLutmade to be Selfish cannOt apart from how or She 3quot Wantte be seen well Lazy mother sees and feels ebeuit others Feelings mew om rld Bitter Unfair Justified Uniust sense that something is right tor wrong Alert awesome UBTBHEWE Agelnistrme Wu for us to do like how we should or shouldn39t treat someone and we act opposite of what we know is right The Nature of Change Wednesday December 16 y Tha t something else is always present in the fore of other people other people s reality constantly beckons me and it is that reality that l have been resisting